Fellow blogger in need of help! 

Hello there Bloggers ☺️

So I’ve had a little trouble writing lately. Literally feels like I have nothing to write. I don’t like that feeling. This got me thinking to why I started blogging. I remember my thoughts were so cramped that I just needed somewhere to empty and put them out. It was amazing because whenever I got a thought or something was bothering me I’d type it away. While I was thinking of this I realised that till now I haven’t really posted anything that fits with my blogging name, ClumsyandSilly. So why did I choose this name?

Whenever someone was asked to describe me clumsy and silly would always be mentioned. That’s how I portrayed myself to those around me. I never let them see the serious emotional side of me, that’s why my thoughts when alone or at night in the comfort of my bed were nothing like people saw. I changed myself, I wouldn’t say became closed up but more aware and cautious of when, what, how and why something is being said or done.

When I started blogging I knew that I wanted to speak the thoughts I never trusted or dared to say. I wanted to be able to free the screaming thoughts and emotions without having anyone look me in the eyes and dig deeper. I just wanted to be able to be heard, without any second thinking or doubts. But I guess now it feels like, what do people want to read? What posts will interest others? What messages will my readers take from the posts I share?

I don’t know. I just can’t find the inspiration to write something that satisfies me enough to post up. I know I want to write, I know I want to in someway benefit my readers with the posts I share, and I know for a fact I don’t want to be the person that blows unwanted Smoke on the people passing by.

So all you beautiful people out there, I need your help. What would you like to read about? What will benefit you in any way? What’s some experiences or opinions you would like to be shared? I would love to hear all your suggestions and thoughts. Please let me know what you think and what I should do. ☺️

Bye for now and stay amazing my fellow bloggers. 😘

12 thoughts on “Fellow blogger in need of help! 

  1. Instead of answering your questions outright I have a couple for you. You said you started to write as an outlet for yourself. Has that changed? Is your focus now more on what will get your work read or is it still a venting of emotional detritus and angst?
    When you started you were writing for you..your audience was yourself. When did that change and what was the catalyst for that change? That’s what we want to read by the way. Your thoughts about things. Your feelings about things.
    Does the blog no longer satisfy the need to vent? Was it a momentary fix or a long term endeavor? We all hit slumps but it sounds more like your need to write about whatever is going on has significantly changed. Hope that helps.

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    1. Thank you 🙂 I really appreciate this comment and it really got me thinking. And you have 100% helped, thank you again.
      I’m sorry it took so long to reply but had to disappear for a while and figure things out 🙂 .


  2. Dig deep, some times you may not have much to say, but what is it that makes you tick? what is it that makes you cower? What makes you embarrassed? What Is the one thing that you cant do without? what makes you want to loath yourself?
    People dig people, not the superficial, glossy exterior that you would like every one to believe in. Unleash yourself, Tell them what its like to be you!!! That’s a start… That’s what I normally blog about.. the harsh reality of being me.

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    1. Sorry for such a delayed reply.
      Thank you so much for this wonderful advice. Although it is quite a challenge for me to open up, guess that’s one thing that cower. But hopefully I will try and post something soon giving you a little insight of what it is like to be me. 🙂

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  3. Figuring how and what to blog takes some trial and error.

    * Find your voice — don’t try to be anybody else.

    * Read other blogs that interest you. What are they talking about?

    * Don’t be afraid to experiment a little. In doing that, you may stumble across what strikes a nerve with others.

    Good luck!

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    1. Thank you so much. I appreciate your time to give me such wonderful advice.
      I’m sorry this reply took so long, but i had to disappear for a bit in order to ‘find my voice’ and figure out what I want. Hopefully I will start posting again soon. 🙂


  4. I think you should write about what you want to write about. I think *most* people are drawn to the authentic. Be the authentic you. Write about what you love, just the way you see it because someone else will probably love the same thing, but see it differently or experience it differently. Make a list of things you love, I mean really love: music? art? love? literature? the color blue? Make it yours.

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  5. What do I know, but here’s my suggestion (I hate giving advice): Ignore this thought that you have: “I know I want to in someway benefit my readers with the posts I share.” I think that is a creativity-killer. I think if you write from your heart, what you write will be of interest and benefit to your readers. So just be transparent, honest, be yourself, show your deep-down scary/beautiful self.

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