Childhood lessons…

As kids,
We acted out things a lot,
Whether for fun,
Or to emphasis a point.

Remember whenever we were told a secret,
Or when we just needed to be quiet,
We would “Zip” our mouth,
“Lock it” at the side,
And “throw the key away”.

It honestly helped,
And it was taken so seriously.

Surely we’re not kids anymore,
However it truly would make a difference if people still knew how to just be quiet.

Even a second of silence can make a difference,
Whether it’s to listen to a point,
Or rethink whatever you’re planning to say.

Don’t forget your childhood lessons,
Yeah they were fun,
But now they could save you from a lot of trouble.


All this…

You saw me from afar,

Didn’t utter a single word,

Scanning with your eyes.


Based on your perception,

A decision was made,

And a label was placed.


All this…

Without getting to know me first.


Reminder: Be careful of the labels you place, be wise and remember to never judge a book by its cover.





Everyday is a new beginning,

Everyday is a brand new chance,

Everyday is the perfect time to shine.


Everyday should be a day for improvements,

A day to move forward,

To find your light,

To conquer your fears,

To love more,

To care more,

To be the best you can ever be.


Don’t hold yourself back or give up because one day you’ll wake up and love and smile back at your familiar stranger.


Happy Birthday/Anniversary to me! ClumsyandSilly has turned 1 today (BD: 20/03/2016)

Thank you to all my amazing family and all my wonderful visitors. Without you ClumsyandSilly wouldn’t be celebrating today! I love you all ❤️IMG_0396

On this special occassion: Here’s the birth of ClumsyandSilly

Bad day?

I heard you’ve had a rough night, and it all just became too much. I’m so sorry you were alone, feeling so down. If I had the chance I would’ve come right over. With a cup of coffee in each of our hands, I would’ve sat and listened till the final thought spilled out of your mind.

I don’t know what it is you’re going through and I don’t know how much of a struggle everything has been. I just want you to know I’m here if you ever need. Don’t ever hesitate to drop by and say “I just need you to listen to everything I’ve got to say.”

I’m all ears and will try my best to be available in every single way. If not, I apologise life is probably getting in the way but you can trust that I’ll get back to you as soon as I can, I won’t delay.

For now my words of opinion and advice are scattered around in this blog, feel free to have a read until I come back.

The final thing I want to leave you with for now is, figure out the pattern that leaves you feeling down, break it and make it one that elicits positive feelings of happiness and joy.

Stay strong, it’s okay to have a bad day. Just remember to get back up and find your happy path again. 💕

You’ll never understand…

Life can be tough,

No doubt about it,

Each one of us going through our own struggles,

Our own hardships and challenges.


People often say,

“You’ll never understand what I’m going through”,

Yes, you’re probably right,

But you too don’t know what they’re going through.


No one has a worry free perfect life,

We all struggle,

We are all fighting our own battles,

The only difference is how we cope and carry on.


So when things get tough get up,

jiggle around abit,

Let loose and relax,

Then get back to your battle with a clear and determined mind.


Remember you’re not alone.

Stay strong. Fight smarter not harder.

A new start is here…

Another chapter coming to an end,

Another one about to begin,

Use this final day to skim through and find the obvious mistakes,

Learn from them and plan ahead,

Do not Mope about what’s already done,

But be glad for the chance you’ve got,

Turn the page and begin it great,

Make it the best thing you’ve ever made.


Allow a plot twist or a huge step to take place,

Always stay motivated,

Fight off the demons,

Conquer your fears,

And get that much closer to the goals you’ve set,

I’m sure you’ve procrastinated a lot in the past,

But nows the time to surprise yourself with how far you can go,

Push yourself and stay on top of your game,

Take every chance and have no regrets,

Stay strong and always smile.


A new start is here so…

Let your ink tell the story.



Oh my, I’m back. It’s been so long, 2 months I think? Long enough for me to miss writing and all of you amazing people. How’s everything been? There’s so much we need to catch up on (please don’t hesitate to comment and fill me in with anything). Now that I’ve taken my time away to relax (well, not really) but I’ve had the chance to clear my mind and have a think about everything.

I want to thank all of you again for such amazing comments and the advice you gave me. It honestly allowed me to gain perspective again. Soooo…. I had trouble before I left with getting so caught up with trying to think of the perfect content but then I realised (with all of your help Ofcourse) that I just simply had to write. That’s what I did before and that’s what I loved, so that’s what I’m going to do now. Now I may be disappearing every now and then but that’s just until I sort a couple of other things out, so please be patient with me and hopefully you’ll stick around.

I know I should cut this short, or I’ll get too carried away with just rambling on about everything but I just would like to finish off with one thing. With New Years around the corner, I hope you’ve all started to think and hopefully decided on your New Years resolution. I’d definitely love to hear about a couple, if you guys are willing to share. And also what are your plans and tricks to make sure you stick with it?

Stay strong and stay smiling. ☺️